Cigar Etiquette for Non-Smokers & Occasional Smokers

Introduction

You don't have to be a seasoned aficionado to enjoy a cigar. Whether you've been handed one at a wedding, offered one at a business dinner, or simply curious about trying one for the first time, knowing a little cigar etiquette goes a long way. It helps you enjoy the experience more, avoid common faux pas, and feel confident in any setting.

This guide is written specifically for non-smokers and occasional smokers — no jargon, no snobbery, just practical advice.

1. You Don't Have to Accept

First things first: if someone offers you a cigar and you'd rather not smoke, it's perfectly fine to decline graciously. A simple "thank you, but I'll pass" is all that's needed. Good cigar culture is never about pressure — it's about shared enjoyment.

2. Don't Inhale

This is the single most important thing for a first-timer to know. Cigars are not cigarettes — you do not inhale the smoke into your lungs. Instead, draw the smoke into your mouth, savour the flavour, and exhale slowly. Inhaling cigar smoke will almost certainly make you feel unwell, especially if you're not a regular smoker.

3. How to Cut a Cigar

Most premium cigars have a closed cap at one end (the end you put in your mouth). Before smoking, you need to make a clean cut just above the cap line — roughly 2–3mm from the tip.

• Use a guillotine cutter for a straight cut — the most common and beginner-friendly option
• Use a punch cutter for a small circular hole — great for a tighter draw
• Avoid using your teeth or scissors — a ragged cut ruins the smoke

Browse our range of cigar cutters and accessories if you need one.

4. How to Light a Cigar

Lighting a cigar properly takes a little patience but makes a big difference to the flavour.

• Use a butane lighter or cedar match — never a petrol lighter or scented candle, as the chemicals affect the taste
• Hold the cigar at a 45-degree angle and bring the flame close without touching the foot (the open end)
• Rotate the cigar slowly while drawing gently, until the foot glows evenly
• Take your first proper puff once it's evenly lit

Our EMS Refillable Jet Flame Lighter is a great choice for beginners — windproof and reliable.

5. Pacing Yourself

A premium cigar is not meant to be rushed. Smoke slowly — one puff every minute or so is about right. Smoking too quickly overheats the cigar, making it harsh and bitter. If the cigar goes out, that's fine — simply relight it. There's no shame in taking a break.

For occasional smokers, a smaller format cigar (such as a petit corona or robusto) is a better starting point than a large Churchill, which can take over an hour to smoke.

6. Ash Etiquette

Unlike a cigarette, you don't tap cigar ash off frequently. A good cigar will hold a long, firm ash — and letting it build is actually a sign of quality. Gently rest the ash against an ashtray when it reaches about an inch in length, rather than tapping it off aggressively.

7. Where to Smoke

Always be mindful of those around you. Cigar smoke is more pungent than cigarette smoke and lingers longer. A few guidelines:

• Smoke outdoors or in a designated cigar lounge where possible
• Ask permission before lighting up near non-smokers
• Avoid smoking near food — the aroma can overpower a meal
• Be aware of local smoking laws, particularly in public spaces in the UK

8. Choosing the Right Cigar as a Beginner

If you're new to cigars, start mild. A full-bodied cigar can be overwhelming for someone not used to nicotine. Look for:

• Mild to medium strength — approachable and flavourful without being overpowering
• Smaller formats — a robusto or petit corona is ideal for a first smoke
• Quality construction — a well-made cigar burns evenly and is far more enjoyable

Our sampler packs are a brilliant way to explore different styles without committing to a full box. The New World Sampler Set is a great starting point.

9. Pairing Your Cigar

Cigars pair beautifully with the right drink. For occasional smokers, lighter pairings work best:

• Mild cigars — pair well with coffee, light rum, or a smooth bourbon
• Medium cigars — complement whisky, aged rum, or a full-bodied red wine
• Avoid pairing with anything too sweet or acidic, which can clash with the tobacco flavour

10. Enjoy the Moment

Above all, a cigar is about slowing down and marking a moment. There's no right or wrong way to enjoy one — as long as you're respectful of those around you and taking your time. The world of premium cigars is welcoming to newcomers, and the more you explore, the more you'll discover.

If you have any questions about choosing your first cigar or need a recommendation, get in touch — we're always happy to help.